Feeling like taking control? There's a lot of ways to exert your dominance in the bedroom. "The best dominance sex position has little to do with. While having sex the most often the man leads the whole process, he sets the rhythm of the sexual action he executes movements and governs his mistress. It is no secret that men love to enjoy the feeling of domination during sex, and with varieties of sex positions out there, there are more than a few ways to do this.